thing that enlighten my mood ----->
it was delivered right in front of my door just now. how happy i am now, my last perfume dah habis berbulan2 dah and i didn't spray anything ever since then. so of course la i excited sangat dah ada perfume balik hokehh. this time i try this new kind of essence yang i x penah pakai before ni sebab i used to like the smell yang jenis lembut but this one a lil' bit keras, it's not keras actually, dia macam bau tu akan tahan lama ahh i x tawu la nak explain -...- oh it was designed for new yorkers. hehe sejak2 minat How I Met Your Mother Ni semua nak new york je -.-
back to the main point why i was dragged here, i nak share about guy with family-man attitude. i had one lecturer ni yang sangat2 reflect dengan this kind of attitude, he likes to share stories about his son and daughter. and i paling terpesona kagum sekali bila dia cancel class for 2 days sebab nak celebrate birthday daughter dia, ok i suppose to feel sad kan bila class cancel??ahaa but i feel kagum instead!thanx sir. he said "i won't be around for 2 days, why??because my eldest daughter got her birthday on that day, she said to me she will puncture my car's tyre if i go to college, can u imagine 5-year-old kid have this kind of emotional thingy, she always throw a tantrum, not like my son, well i guess thats how we act right, man??always stay calm and cool, if he manage to watch cartoon he'd be happy, if not he just play with his toys, nothing to worry". hehe ok ni jela i sempat tangkap apa sir cakap. he's so loving kan with his kids.
nowadays susah jumpa laki macam ni dah, contohnya ada depan mata i, my cousins. i don't know why they were like avoiding their kids. kalau budak tu nak makan, bila dia pergi merap(meminta-minta) kat ayah dia mesti jawapannya "pegi kat mama eh", "mintak kat mama la", "mama, tengok ni budak ni nak ape tah". urghh..why??? xboleh ke buatkan, susah sangat ke setakat nak have a break kejap and put some rice onto the plate, put some chicken and other lauk. just that kan, rasanya x perlu pun nak sikit2 suruh wife yang buatkan. kalau macam ni, macam mana la budak tu nak rapat dengan si ayah kan, sebab tu la banyak budak2 sekarang ni kita nampak clingy dengan mak dia lagi. mostly la, not all.
itu baru bab makan, x sentuh lagi benda yang lagi susah dari ni, hummm rasanya mesti boleh bilang dengan jari je bila si ayah tu buat benda2 tu, kalau x kes emergency(maybe mak masuk toilet), mesti kes nak bodek isteri, well maybe nak suruh urut malam2 ke kan. haha ayat macam tengah marah la pulak. noo, i'm not mad i just nak emphasize kat sini yang guys out there pleaseee, that kid is also your kid, so tolong menolong la, tanggungjawab jugak tu, jangan la fikir hal urusan anak2 ni suppose to be kerja ibu je sebab si ibu ni ada banyak lagi kerja rumah yang kena buat, memang x menang tangan la kalau semua nak buat kan, yang laki tu seronok je baca paper.
when i look at my dad, he's sooo hard-working and also family-man type. sejak dari mama mengandungkan kitorang abah banyak tolong buat kerja2 rumah sebab nak mama have enough rest, jaga diet mama supaya makan yang nutritious sahaja, bayangkan mama cerita mama nak makan asam jeruk pun abah control, bila nak makan je abah yang beli and kalau mama makan lebih2 mesti abah sorokkan. pastu bila kitorang dah lahir, abah terus ambil alih tugas suri rumah, basuh baju, kemas rumah, masak semua abah buat sendiri, very independent. my mom masa dalam pantang just rest and take care of her health macam bertungku semua tu. and jaga baby. in this case, even nenek i pun x banyak tolong buat kerja rumah sebab dah semua abah buatkan.
ok kalau nak cerita lagi tu macam banyak sangat la dan x best pulak nak cerita nanti nampak macam show off kan. but the point is, i dibesarkan dalam suasana lelaki-sangat-pandai-layan-anak-dan-xberkira. so i jadi x faham kenapa ada sesetengah laki yang x boleh nak fikir pun betapa pentingnya bila dorang hulurkan tangan membantu, even sikit pun dah bagi impact yang besar sebab less work yang si ibu tu perlu buat dan baki masa yang ada tu dia boleh buat benda lain yang maybe dia x sempat buat pun sebelum ni disebabkan x menang tangan. cuba bayangkan kalau balik kerja si lelaki yang mandikan anak dia, and tadaa!! hadiah daripada masa yang lebih tu si isteri buatkan bluberry muffin untuk minum petang. wahhhh it's a win-win situation ain't it?
jadi, saranan saya di sini agar semua lelaki di luar sana samada yang sudah berumah tangga atau belum, sedarlah bahawa lelaki tu bukan kerja dia mencari duit je, dia adalah peringan beban isteri. sebab bab cari duit tu sekarang ni most of the women memang bekerja pun and even more gaji dari suami, so x boleh nak claim kata kerja cari duit sangat la kat situ kan, sama rata je kalau bab tu. jadi, berharmonilah sesama anda agar kesejahteraan hidup dapat dicapai. waahhh gitueee :))
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